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Abdulhameed Khiyami's avatar

AMAZING POST, you don't know how much i needed this.

I'm grateful for crossing by this post.

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Bryan Dijkhuizen's avatar

Every choice today is a letter to your future self. They’ll either thank you or resent you.

The comfort you choose now often becomes regret later. Growth rarely feels good in the moment, but it lasts.

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Nick St.Amant's avatar

An interesting persepective that I think I've been vaguely aware of, especially since I've become interested in Stoicism in the past few years. About 10 years into my 53 year career I realized that I had always felt I learned more from my mistakes and failures than from my successes. At age 83 I still feel the same way.

Today's post makes me realize that what might be a simple decision can have a long-term effect. So it's important to not just learn from one's mistakes, but also to look back and learn from your decisions. What might seem like a simple decision could (and can actually) affect your entire life.

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Honeyrealms's avatar

Great piece! So important.

I would thank myself for making myself healthy and strong, so I can remain that way for a long time and stay independent as much as possible. I’d also thank myself for never-ending learning and for choosing peace.

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Clair's avatar

Thank you for this post

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Trevor's avatar

Amazing, thank you!

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Nnenna Ukpai-Okenwa's avatar

Now I can't stop thinking that my future self is sitting beside me, ready to give me the eye depending on my choices per time.

Thank you for this.

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Karl Stott's avatar

Good article, I’ve saved it as a reminder for each day “what would my future self thank me for?”

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Ronny Barboza's avatar

"Outcome Obsession" with "Strategic Ethical Values"... is both Stoic & Machevellian, in that One must be Driven to be self-preserving, wise, analytical, & comprehensive of their #OWN futures

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Satori Mente's avatar

Your post in sync with what I felt this morning

https://rucsylina.substack.com/p/memoir

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theophilus gweth's avatar

Thinking back, temporal triangulation on its own would have done so much good for me

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The Old Guardian's avatar

That I finally started thinking about my legacy. Started putting my money where my mouth is. Don’t gripe, act and act now.

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Billy's avatar

Great read before work. Thanks.

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Terri Conner's avatar

Wonderful, thought-provoking and calming.

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Jinaya's avatar

Thank you

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Prish's avatar

I learnt something very important today. Thank you for sharing this.

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