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Kyrill's avatar

I used to be jealous a lot. I completely turned this around in the past years. I am genuienly happy for the person who achieved something that I can't, or have not yet. It's so much more rewarding being happy together about things instead of being secretly jealous, that it motivates me to work harder for my goals. It also much easier on the soul indeed.

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Stoic Wisdoms's avatar

That transformation you describe is exactly what this philosophy aims for - finding joy in others' successes rather than resentment. And you're right, it's not just healthier but actually energizing to redirect that energy toward your own goals.

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Deborah Healey 🇬🇧's avatar

Always believe we are enough, trust in yourself, to encourage others to have a love for themselves, not envy of others.

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Stoic Wisdoms's avatar

So well said, Deborah! Self-trust and recognizing our inherent worth creates that solid foundation where we can genuinely celebrate others without feeling diminished.

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Deborah Healey 🇬🇧's avatar

We are all enough, just as we are. No hiding our worth or behind masks. Its having a love for who we are.. Our hearts and souls, for this universe.

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Deborah Healey 🇬🇧's avatar

Ancient Wisdom encourages trust in oneself, to not have envy, to have strength, to encourage others to grow, and to have love for Self.

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Laurel Virginia's avatar

This is this first substack I have ever read. I just joined this platform and I truly believe that I have found the platform that most resonates with my humanity, creativity, my love of writing and conversation. What a wonderful introduction to your page and just this app in general.

Jealousy is in all of us, using it to grow & improve in life is what we should all strive for. I am guilty of letting jealousy overcome me in my earlier years. The more I live and survive the less jealousy envelopes me. I strive harder everyday to reach my goals.

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Stoic Wisdoms's avatar

Welcome! Love hearing your growth journey with jealousy.

Keep channeling those feelings into positive action—you're on the right path!

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Renee (@msha.ke/truediva)'s avatar

Deep stuff. Felt this.

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Stoic Wisdoms's avatar

Thank you, Renee. Sometimes the deepest truths touch us in places words can barely reach.

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Renee (@msha.ke/truediva)'s avatar

Absolutely:)

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Julene Cole's avatar

This article really hit home! I used to be jealous of rich people, skinny people, and more popular people. It took a lot of self-reflection to realize that I was jealous before I even started to work on it. It's a slow process, but one definitely worth it!

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Stoic Wisdoms's avatar

Recognizing jealousy is that crucial first step many never take.

You're right that it's a process - but what meaningful growth isn't? Thanks for sharing your experience.

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Julene Cole's avatar

Yes, it definitely is! 💕🙏

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Janaka Stagnaro's avatar

Very insightful writing. In the Tarot, I see the 3 of Swords as the card of jealousy. The image is of a large heart pierced with three swords. Rain clouds are sending down their rain. Depending on where the card falls and the relationship with other cards, I often advise the querent to acknowledge someone they are jealous of and to thank them for pointing out what you would like to aim toward. For example, if I feel jealous of an artist getting recognition for their work, I need to put myself out there more. By being grateful, I eliminate that 'lousy' feeling of jealousy, and I can appreciate their accomplishment. Cheers

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Chidanand M's avatar

Envy may be a natural phenomenon. However, one can convert it to excel and beat it.

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Stoic Wisdoms's avatar

Acknowledging the natural feeling while choosing how we channel that energy makes all the difference.

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May's avatar

Rightly said "Envy is the ulcer of the soul." — Socrates

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Stoic Wisdoms's avatar

That quote contains so much truth in so few words, doesn't it?

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Epsilon's avatar

Yeah, never turns jealousy to bully for sure

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Adam's avatar

Thank you so much for this article! This should be a lesson in all schools, social media is so influential for today’s youth. I will definitely be utilizing this for my own growth now ❤️

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Dark Mind's avatar

This article skillfully turns jealousy into a catalyst for growth, blending history, philosophy, and practical strategies. The insights from Stoicism and real-life examples create a powerful guide to self-improvement. A thought-provoking, inspiring, and transformative read for anyone striving for success!❤️

Do read "Dark Wisdoms" ( https://darkwisdom.substack.com/ )

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JP P's avatar

My opinion jealousy and envy are quite possibly the two worst human traits

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