What stayed with me is that the warmth was real and simply untested, so nothing looked wrong from the outside. The same can be true of a life you built yourself. Somewhere in those years the thing I had built had stopped matching what I was interested in, what I valued, and where I thought my life was going. It had not failed. It had not turned bad. It had become the property of a version of me who set it up and then kept going, because there was never a single day on which going was the wrong thing to do. Do you think writing off the debt works the same way when the one who broke faith is an earlier version of yourself?
“Loyalty holds for as long as loyalty and that good point the same way.” Hi- is there a word missing here? Trying to understand this statement. Thanks.
What stayed with me is that the warmth was real and simply untested, so nothing looked wrong from the outside. The same can be true of a life you built yourself. Somewhere in those years the thing I had built had stopped matching what I was interested in, what I valued, and where I thought my life was going. It had not failed. It had not turned bad. It had become the property of a version of me who set it up and then kept going, because there was never a single day on which going was the wrong thing to do. Do you think writing off the debt works the same way when the one who broke faith is an earlier version of yourself?
Thank you for this🙏🏽
Forgiveness isn't emotional grace; it's simply writing off a bad debt to protect your future execution speed.
“Loyalty holds for as long as loyalty and that good point the same way.” Hi- is there a word missing here? Trying to understand this statement. Thanks.
Editorial mistake by me. I’ve fixed it now, sorry for the confusion.
No worries. Thanks.